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BestDates has a rating of 4.2 stars from 71 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. BestDates ranks 29th among Dating sites.
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Ok so i bought what i thought was a reasonable amount and it just... disappeared. Like 3 conversations and i'm back to zero. Nobody tells you how fast it goes
My buddy been telling me about online dating for years and I finally caved last month. Started here cause it didn't look like it was made for 20 year olds and yeah Im happy I picked it
Women are my age and actually have things to say
Hi William,
Love to hear that! Great people make for great conversations, hope you continue to enjoy the community!
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
Honestly the first few days I was kinda lost not gonna lie.but stuck with it and the women here actually want to talk and not just look at pictures all day. Found two ladies I really enjoy chatting with.
Hi Richard,
Happy to know you're finding great people here, that's exactly the kind of vibe we aim for!
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
Paid. Page went white. No confirmation. Checked my bank charged. Waited two hours email arrived. Everything was correct. I'm aware this sounds fine written down but those two hours were not fine. Just tell me it worked
Hi Sandra,
We're continuously working on improvements and feedback like yours helps us along the way. If it happens again, get in touch at [email protected] and we'll sort it out right away!
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
The experience is topnotch I am happy to have known this platform, it's exciting to meet people from different countries. This site is easy to navigate😊
Hi Robert,
Really glad to hear the platform has been such a positive experience! Connecting with people from different parts of the world is exactly what it's here for. Hope the great conversations keep coming!
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
I signed up in like two minutes and everything was ready without a headache. My only issue is that the photo uploader kept giving me an error on my first two tries but then it worked fine.
Hi Ken,
Happy to hear the sign-up was smooth! If you encounter any issues or have any questions in the future, don't hesitate to reach out at [email protected] and we'll get it sorted!
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
I was worried about hidden fees but it is pretty clear how the credits work. I use them when i want and dont get charged randomly. The response from the conversation is amazing
Hi Tyler,
Glad it's clear! Thanks for the feedback.
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
Most profiles I click on actually have stuff written in them instead of just blank space or one emoji. It makes it way easier to start a talk with someone when you know they like dogs or hiking or whatever. Bestdates seems to have a good crowd, there are plenty of friendly people here. I'll be interested in seeing how it progresses.
Hi Owen,
That's good to hear! Quality profiles make a difference. Thanks for sharing.
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
I stayed away for a while because Bestdates reviews were all over the place and I couldn't tell if it was legit but it's actually fine for meeting people. The interface is a bit of a headache at first though.
Hi Hayden,
Thanks for giving us a shot! We hear you on the interface. If you have any ideas on how to improve it, feel free to share with [email protected].
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
I signed up last week and mostly it's just fine. The people respond back which is more than I can say for other places I tried. No weird glitches on my phone either. Everything you need you can find on the page, like Profile buttton and so on, very good layout
Hi Peter,
Good to hear! Thanks for the feedback.
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
Finally a place where I'm not getting bombarded with nonsense right away. Its nice to just browse for a bit without a million popups. Bestdates is better than the last three apps i tried honestly
Hi Paul,
Appreciate that! We try to keep things clean and straightforward.
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
It wasn't the best experience. The app overall is good. But the charging mode and the rules are not clear for a new one. Seems like a trap. So I didn't have the best experience
Hi Carol,
We appreciate the feedback. If you have specific questions, feel free to reach out to [email protected] and we'll walk you through it.
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
Being after my wife passed away two years ago I just stayed inside most of the time. My daughter told me to find a hobby but i am not good at woodworking or things like that. I found Bestdates and it is different than the sites i used in the nineties. I was worried about being tricked because you hear stories about older men losing their savings but i just take it slow. I feel a bit more connected to the world without having to go to a loud bar
I've received pictures that were obviously of models, some were close to being simi-porn or very suggestive. I want honesty, not phony, made up pictures. I'm 83 years old and don't want pictures of some very young women----one was only 18 years old. I have grand childern older than that.
I assumed this site would not send semi-porn pictures or messages from teenagers. Many of the pictures are not current, but were taken many years ago. Other pictures seem to be of models Finally, blocked sites are not blocked.
I've had three meaningful conversations this week and nobody feels like they are reading from a script. It is refreshing to have a platform that doesn't feel like a game. The only downside is that the mobile version freezes up sometimes when I'm trying to scroll fast
Hi Ethan,
So glad the conversations have been great! Thanks for flagging the mobile issue, we'll look into that. Enjoy connecting!
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
Navigation is pretty predictable and i didnt have any issues with stuff crashing or resetting on me. Bestdates seems alright for meeting folks outside my usual circle
Hi Noah,
Appreciate the feedback! Glad it's running smoothly for you.
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
I talked some men yesterday nice they are nice but suddenly the App disappeared how can i subscribe, in China only WeChat for payment..
Hi Leonora,
Sorry to hear you're having trouble accessing the app! For payment options and support in your region, please reach out to [email protected] and they'll help you get sorted.
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
I'm usually pretty skeptical with these things but so far it's good. The profiles look real and I haven't run into those annoying bot accounts that usually plague these sites. Just talked to a nice girl from Poland during my lunch break today which was really cool. And it's fast too, message delivery is fantastic
Hi there,
That's awesome to hear! Glad you've had a smooth experience and some cool conversations. Thanks for giving it a shot!
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
Although, the women on very beautiful. It is hard to decipher if I am speaking with the woman in the picture.
Hi Chico,
Thanks for the feedback! Our team reviews reported profiles to help ensure user safety. If you ever have doubts about a specific profile, feel free to reach out to support and we can look into it for you. Hope your conversations continue to go well!
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
I made a comment abortus getting credits how its difficult without creditcard
They used it to make things better
Hi George,
To simplify transactions, we currently process payments via card, Google Pay, and Apple Pay. For individual issues, the best step is to contact our support team at [email protected] so they can guide you directly.
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates
Nice page online credits getting is complicaties if you have no creditcard
What is BestDates? It's an online dating site built for people who believe the right conversation is worth taking time over. We created BestDates.com for those who want to connect online at their own pace - without pressure and without shortcuts.
BestDates features designed to help you get started:
- Customizable profiles so your personality comes through
- Messaging with drafts, photo sharing, and "Let's Talk" icebreakers
- Premium stickers for more expressive exchanges
- A clean, mobile-friendly interface across all devices
Safety is built into how the BestDates dating site operates. We take measures to minimize instances of unwanted content and work continuously to detect and remove suspicious profiles. Identity verification is available through an industry-leading third-party vendor - many users can be verified this way. Our support team is on hand to respond to any concern within 24 hours, with most issues resolved within 5 days. Join for free and see what's possible.


Hi Justin,
Credits go toward the features you actively choose to engage with, and they can move faster than expected depending on how active the conversations are. If you'd like a clearer picture of how credits work across different features, [email protected] is happy to walk you through it so you can better plan your usage going forward.
Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates