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BestDates

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BestDates Reviews Summary

BestDates has a rating of 4.2 stars from 71 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. BestDates ranks 29th among Dating sites.

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Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Credits gone before I knew it
May 18, 2026

Ok so i bought what i thought was a reasonable amount and it just... disappeared. Like 3 conversations and i'm back to zero. Nobody tells you how fast it goes

Date of experience: May 10, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
3 weeks ago

Hi Justin,

Credits go toward the features you actively choose to engage with, and they can move faster than expected depending on how active the conversations are. If you'd like a clearer picture of how credits work across different features, [email protected] is happy to walk you through it so you can better plan your usage going forward.

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

Illinois
1 review
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Glad I finally tried it
May 12, 2026

My buddy been telling me about online dating for years and I finally caved last month. Started here cause it didn't look like it was made for 20 year olds and yeah Im happy I picked it
Women are my age and actually have things to say

Date of experience: May 5, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
3 weeks ago

Hi William,

Love to hear that! Great people make for great conversations, hope you continue to enjoy the community!

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Honestly the first few days I was kinda lost not gonna lie.but stuck with it and the women here actually want to talk and not just look at pictures all day. Found two ladies I really enjoy chatting with.

Date of experience: April 28, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
1 month ago

Hi Richard,

Happy to know you're finding great people here, that's exactly the kind of vibe we aim for!

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Billed. Not told that's why 1 star
April 17, 2026

Paid. Page went white. No confirmation. Checked my bank charged. Waited two hours email arrived. Everything was correct. I'm aware this sounds fine written down but those two hours were not fine. Just tell me it worked

Date of experience: April 5, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
2 months ago

Hi Sandra,

We're continuously working on improvements and feedback like yours helps us along the way. If it happens again, get in touch at [email protected] and we'll sort it out right away!

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Simple setup process
April 10, 2026

The experience is topnotch I am happy to have known this platform, it's exciting to meet people from different countries. This site is easy to navigate😊

Date of experience: March 31, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
2 months ago

Hi Robert,

Really glad to hear the platform has been such a positive experience! Connecting with people from different parts of the world is exactly what it's here for. Hope the great conversations keep coming!

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Simple to set up and go
March 20, 2026

I signed up in like two minutes and everything was ready without a headache. My only issue is that the photo uploader kept giving me an error on my first two tries but then it worked fine.

Date of experience: March 8, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
2 months ago

Hi Ken,

Happy to hear the sign-up was smooth! If you encounter any issues or have any questions in the future, don't hesitate to reach out at [email protected] and we'll get it sorted!

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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No issues with the billing
March 18, 2026

I was worried about hidden fees but it is pretty clear how the credits work. I use them when i want and dont get charged randomly. The response from the conversation is amazing

Date of experience: March 10, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
3 months ago

Hi Tyler,

Glad it's clear! Thanks for the feedback.

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Like seeing real hobbies on here
March 13, 2026

Most profiles I click on actually have stuff written in them instead of just blank space or one emoji. It makes it way easier to start a talk with someone when you know they like dogs or hiking or whatever. Bestdates seems to have a good crowd, there are plenty of friendly people here. I'll be interested in seeing how it progresses.

Date of experience: March 8, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
3 months ago

Hi Owen,

That's good to hear! Quality profiles make a difference. Thanks for sharing.

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Worth the look for sure
March 12, 2026

I stayed away for a while because Bestdates reviews were all over the place and I couldn't tell if it was legit but it's actually fine for meeting people. The interface is a bit of a headache at first though.

Date of experience: March 7, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
3 months ago

Hi Hayden,

Thanks for giving us a shot! We hear you on the interface. If you have any ideas on how to improve it, feel free to share with [email protected].

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Good enough for a few chats
March 10, 2026

I signed up last week and mostly it's just fine. The people respond back which is more than I can say for other places I tried. No weird glitches on my phone either. Everything you need you can find on the page, like Profile buttton and so on, very good layout

Date of experience: March 4, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
3 months ago

Hi Peter,

Good to hear! Thanks for the feedback.

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

Alabama
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Found some great people here
February 24, 2026

Finally a place where I'm not getting bombarded with nonsense right away. Its nice to just browse for a bit without a million popups. Bestdates is better than the last three apps i tried honestly

Date of experience: February 15, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
3 months ago

Hi Paul,

Appreciate that! We try to keep things clean and straightforward.

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

Brazil
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Unexpected
February 19, 2026
Updated review

It wasn't the best experience. The app overall is good. But the charging mode and the rules are not clear for a new one. Seems like a trap. So I didn't have the best experience

Date of experience: February 19, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
3 months ago

Hi Carol,

We appreciate the feedback. If you have specific questions, feel free to reach out to [email protected] and we'll walk you through it.

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates


Interesting
February 15, 2026
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Interesting.

Date of experience: February 15, 2026
Ohio
1 review
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Not the same as i remember it
February 18, 2026

Being after my wife passed away two years ago I just stayed inside most of the time. My daughter told me to find a hobby but i am not good at woodworking or things like that. I found Bestdates and it is different than the sites i used in the nineties. I was worried about being tricked because you hear stories about older men losing their savings but i just take it slow. I feel a bit more connected to the world without having to go to a loud bar

Date of experience: February 6, 2026
Tennessee
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Looking for an honest friendship.
February 13, 2026
Updated review

I've received pictures that were obviously of models, some were close to being simi-porn or very suggestive. I want honesty, not phony, made up pictures. I'm 83 years old and don't want pictures of some very young women----one was only 18 years old. I have grand childern older than that.

Date of experience: February 1, 2026

I assumed this site would not send semi-porn pictures...
February 6, 2026
Previous review

I assumed this site would not send semi-porn pictures or messages from teenagers. Many of the pictures are not current, but were taken many years ago. Other pictures seem to be of models Finally, blocked sites are not blocked.

Date of experience: February 6, 2026
Canada
1 review
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Authentic people here
February 12, 2026

I've had three meaningful conversations this week and nobody feels like they are reading from a script. It is refreshing to have a platform that doesn't feel like a game. The only downside is that the mobile version freezes up sometimes when I'm trying to scroll fast

Date of experience: February 8, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
4 months ago

Hi Ethan,

So glad the conversations have been great! Thanks for flagging the mobile issue, we'll look into that. Enjoy connecting!

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

Tennessee
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Decent site for chatting
February 10, 2026

Navigation is pretty predictable and i didnt have any issues with stuff crashing or resetting on me. Bestdates seems alright for meeting folks outside my usual circle

Date of experience: February 5, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
4 months ago

Hi Noah,

Appreciate the feedback! Glad it's running smoothly for you.

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

China
1 review
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I talked some men yesterday nice they are nice but suddenly the App disappeared how can i subscribe, in China only WeChat for payment..

Date of experience: February 8, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
4 months ago

Hi Leonora,

Sorry to hear you're having trouble accessing the app! For payment options and support in your region, please reach out to [email protected] and they'll help you get sorted.

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates


I like this App
February 7, 2026
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I like this App

Date of experience: February 7, 2026
Virginia
3 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Actually good place
February 5, 2026

I'm usually pretty skeptical with these things but so far it's good. The profiles look real and I haven't run into those annoying bot accounts that usually plague these sites. Just talked to a nice girl from Poland during my lunch break today which was really cool. And it's fast too, message delivery is fantastic

Date of experience: February 5, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
4 months ago

Hi there,

That's awesome to hear! Glad you've had a smooth experience and some cool conversations. Thanks for giving it a shot!

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates

New York
1 review
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Communication
January 28, 2026
Updated review

Although, the women on very beautiful. It is hard to decipher if I am speaking with the woman in the picture.

Date of experience: January 28, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
4 months ago

Hi Chico,

Thanks for the feedback! Our team reviews reported profiles to help ensure user safety. If you ever have doubts about a specific profile, feel free to reach out to support and we can look into it for you. Hope your conversations continue to go well!

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates


So far it seems legit
January 27, 2026
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So far it seems legit.

Date of experience: January 26, 2026
NL
1 review
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Clear
January 3, 2026
Updated review

I made a comment abortus getting credits how its difficult without creditcard
They used it to make things better

Date of experience: January 3, 2026
Support Team B. — BestDates Rep
5 months ago

Hi George,

To simplify transactions, we currently process payments via card, Google Pay, and Apple Pay. For individual issues, the best step is to contact our support team at [email protected] so they can guide you directly.

Best wishes,
Blair from BestDates


Nice page online credits getting is complicaties if...
January 2, 2026
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Nice page online credits getting is complicaties if you have no creditcard

Date of experience: January 2, 2026

From the business

What is BestDates? It's an online dating site built for people who believe the right conversation is worth taking time over. We created BestDates.com for those who want to connect online at their own pace - without pressure and without shortcuts.

BestDates features designed to help you get started:

- Customizable profiles so your personality comes through
- Messaging with drafts, photo sharing, and "Let's Talk" icebreakers
- Premium stickers for more expressive exchanges
- A clean, mobile-friendly interface across all devices

Safety is built into how the BestDates dating site operates. We take measures to minimize instances of unwanted content and work continuously to detect and remove suspicious profiles. Identity verification is available through an industry-leading third-party vendor - many users can be verified this way. Our support team is on hand to respond to any concern within 24 hours, with most issues resolved within 5 days. Join for free and see what's possible.